Crying is not being weak, its just letting out your emations and sometimes you need to do this.

You’ll get over it before you know. As they say, heartaches heal over time. If you will focus yourself on how to move on, you will never move on. Dont’ think about it too much. Instead, focus yourself on things that will make your life better. It’s time to set new priorities. Think of things or people you have neglected while in the relationship. Are there anyone? Maybe you should try concentrating on your studies or your career. And remember being in love is not enough for a relationship to work out.

There are going to be more guys out there love is like speed bumps every time you have a break up think this is like a speed bump it will take some slow and steady time to get over but I’ll get there. Don’t think about the one that hurt you …. “there is one man in this world worth tears and even he won’t make you cry!” surround your self with friends and family who love you and will be there when ever you need them. No man is worth crying over you live and you learn but you just keep moving forward or nothing will ever be accomplished in life. like sharks they have to keep swimming forward or they die…. It’s okay to cry and be sad but get out of the house once and a while and have fun with friends and family and take it slow and easy remember everyone goes through it even me…. Take this into consideration and be easy on yourself …every one will be there for you even me<3

I found this excellent article:

http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/

It basically says that there is one secret for getting over a break-up:

To unconditionally love yourself!

I found this to be true.

Sometimes all it takes is a good, long cry to finally get over someone. It is normal to remember fond memories of your ex especially after the breakup. But feeling that you still love him/her after the breakup doesn’t mean that you have to win him/her back. Sometimes you have to accept the fact that things should be the way they are now, especially if you were hurting so much during your relationship with him/her.

Splurge on a trip to the spa, a great dinner at a restaurant or some new cloths. Spoiling yourself will help fight off the feeling of “it’s all my fault! I’m so bad at everything!”

When you feel good about yourself, everything gets easier!
http://www.bringexbackblog.com/278/how-to-get-over-a-break-up/

Even if you still love him/her and both decided to stay friends, stay away from each other after the breakup, until you feel that you can talk to him/her on a platonic level. This means no communication at all (phone calls, text messages, e-mails). Because the longer you put off the end, the harder it is to maintain your resolve and to really get over it.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up

Keep all those things in a box or burn it so that it will no longer affect in your daily activity.

Talk to your friends about your feelings about your ex and the break up. Make sure you do Not talk about it to matual friends that is closer to your ex than they are to you.

Read this article.

http://getmyex.blogspot.com/2009/04/break-up-help-for-those-still-in-love.html

it’s fine if you want to use these things with friends and to have fun. But NEVER start using them on your own, and to escape from your problems.

Ask him first if he’s still willing to save the relationship, but if not, don’t ever force yourself just to win him back! move on! a lot of fish in the shores!

You need to limit any attachment to your ex, ignore his/her call everytime they do. Don’t reply any of his/her messages, comments or emails.

This is a very good article.

http://www.breakups.com/getoverit.html