You and your spouse need to know if you have the same expectations. You must tell each other about that. If you have fears or uncertainty about something, talk things out to prevent the problem from growing.

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Get used to the things about each other that bug you. When you marry someone, you accept him/her for who he/she is.

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Always show your love to your partner. He/she still needs affection from you. If it is necessary, give him/her something that will make him/her happy, like roses for your wife or give your husband his favorite item. This is just a little thing but this makes him feel very imporant and your partner needs it.

Appreciating your partner on every little thing he/she make is also very imporant and he/she really needs your attention. This also helps making your partner feel important and appreciated.

Always have an open communication with your partner. If there is a problem, then you both should talk about it. Don’t ignore that little problem, because that might get big. As much as possible, even for a little problem, give your relationship a time to talk, and fix it out.

For your own good, seek some marriage counseling. This very much important and this has a big role in maintaining marriage.

If you are both too busy with your work, you should give time for your family. Go on adventure, swimming or shopping. This may help your family and relationship be more intact.